Thank you, two words you may not hear often enough.
Dear son, daughter, brother, sister friend , partner or relative,
When was the last time someone asked you how you felt? Does anyone really care about you? Does it bother you that people walk up to you, hug and kiss you, and then say that it was for me (care recipient)? I know that it is not easy to look at me and imagine that there was a time that once took care of you. I know that there are times when I can be difficult, but this is how I deal with my losses. I often think about the good times in my life and may even speak them out loud; this is my attempt to hold on to the way I used to be.
I may not be able to speak, I may not be able to see, or even recognize you at times. But believe me; I can feel love, compassion, kindness, and patience you constantly and unselfishly give to me. You are not easily angered and have never kept an account of wrong doings. You have been there to protect me and keep me from harm. I want you to know that it is you that gives me hope. I can trust you and I know that your love will never fail me.
I care about you. I appreciate all you do. I love you with all my heart. You are so very special to me; in fact, you are a gift from God. It would give me great joy to know that you take care of yourself just as well as you take care of me. I will be O.K.
Just take time out for you. Treat yourself to something special; smell the flowers, watch the sunset, and listen to the birds sing and don't be afraid to ask for help. I know that you are doing the best you can, and you are doing a great job. I just wanted to tell you that I love you and thank you for taking such good care of me.
